Overcoming Embarrassing Moments-use this 10 smart tips

Embarrassing moments are inevitable. You can’t practice long enough to avoid them but you can work on your attitude towards them. Have you ever watched mothers in their Fifty’s? Most of them have perfected it.Here are a few ways of how to go about some awkward situations.

Ruin #1

You are terribly late for work so you pull on last night’s panties. Lol!! During presentation, your last night’s thong – which you didn’t know was still inside your trouser, drops down your shoes.

Reaction

You hesitantly grab the surprise and shutter your way through the speech while threateningly embarrassed, Colleagues catch their breath for you. After the presentation you hobble your way back to your seat and super intently stare at your file seeing and hearing nothing.

Solution

Smile and say o-oh! After I am through with this report you are welcome to Q and A of conquering a frantic Morning.

Ruin #2

You are at the beach with your girls who’ve sent you to get the ice creams. On your way back you are thrilled that men on the beach can’t take their eyes off until you realize they are ogling at your now smaller left boob. Its fake boob/enhancer (That is still on the right one) happened to have been swept away by the tide.

Reaction

You gawk down at your busted lie in horror. You put your hand over your flaccid bikini and semi-jog to your towel calling more attention. You never leave your position till the time comes to go home.

Solution

Act like a breast cancer survivor. Nod at them reassuringly and give them the smile that says, “Life’s what you make it."

Ruin #3

You are finally at the interview of your dream job and in the process trying to gesticulate your points, you overturn the tea filled cup soaking the trousers of your interviewer.

Reaction

You grab tissue from your handbag and vainly soak up the relentless river spreading stained tissue clumps all over and accidentally causing more tea to splash onto his shirt.

Solution

Sincerely apologize over your shoulder and request paper towels from the interviewer’s assistant. Then lighten up the mood saying, “You can see why my career as a waitress did not take off then”

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DON’T COMPARE HIM TO PAST LOVERS

Sex Problems

Though we have been technically crafted to

Know that bad sex is not the main

Reason for relationship or marriages falling apart,

Yes...It still  the fulcrum of a

matrimonial unison. Various external

factors do affect that physical communication

making it an accelerator of an affair speeding

to the dust bin.

Why..?Is there anything wrong in being honest

With thyself and thy partner about what you are feel cancerous

 within your sex life?? These

concerns should never be dumped under the

carpet.

We take more time making cups of Coffee than making

love.

Time is very vital. If he cums too soon, he needs

to spend more time exciting you and you need to

spend less time stimulating him

Get him to pleasure you for the first 20 minutes-then

you’ll both be ready.

Be sensitive and thoughtful. Use your hand gently to

guide his, and DON’T COMPARE HIM TO PAST LOVERS or

at him. Show him how to take longer stimulating you

Be encouraging when he

does this and direct him on how firmly or softly you like

to be touched.

If he doesn’t get it-push him over and whisper sexy

Scenarios in his ear.

 There’s a link between people who

Have difficulty in reaching orgasm and psychological

Problems. So there may be underlying issues that need

resolving.

He still wants the missionary position

Are you attracted to each other physically and

Mentally??...Yes... you’re likely to be attracted to similar sexual

Fantasies.

 You may both be scared of discussing

Fantasies just in case you are judged.

Dr. Banks a sex

expert.

Personal element and tea-

tease your fantasies off  each other. Ask open ended

questions like, ‘I’ve always wondered how…? That will

give him room to express his thoughts without making

it so obviously personal.

Does he seems to be having a serious problem ?

Definitely You are the one to encourage him to draw him out of that trench.

Otherwise he might just never do it- you know about the

male ego.

If a man is abusing alcohol, it won’t only lower his

libido ; it can also decrease testosterone production in

in the brain and even shrink the testes.

Keep an eye on his cigarette consumption, as carbon-

monoxide in the blood can reduce the ability to have an

erection!!!.

He is too hired

If a man is under intense pressure at work, pushing

him into sex will certainly make things worse. The male

ego runs faster than stockings. And if you make it dominate,

you have cultivated an irredeemable terror.

Stress will often decrease libido; watch out for other

Red signals. Does he have a short fuse and blow things out of

proportion? Is he oftenly & irrationally attacking your habits? If

so, This clear ripe depression.

Treat him gently and kindly-just don’t force it. Suggest

he seeks medication and be keen on the reaction.

 But reassure him by blaming

The job for causing the stress-not him.

I won’t dress like that!

Using scarves as blind folds or experimenting each other on

bedposts can be an erotic way to explore adventurous sensual

pleasures, but if you want to increase the adventures

further, it’s good to discuss the boundaries before

hand. Have a password to use when you want him to

stop. 

And make sure the password is not something

can be misconstrued.

If the boundaries are crossed the sexual stimulation

can turn into distrust.

I don’t feel special

When he doesn’t compliment you when you are maki

ng love, you will definitely fell less special. In this case,

don’t attack and criticize him. This will get any man defensive.

Talk about it, but you keep it miles away from the

bedroom.

over a drink

Explain that it would really turn you on

if he complimented you during sex. Since men adore

exciting women, he’ll grab the idea.

The next time you are making love, tell him how good

He is making you feel- he might follow suit.

Just remember that no one has a perfect sex life.

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