Sex Problems
Though we have been technically crafted to
Know that bad sex is not the main
Reason for relationship or marriages falling
apart,
Yes...It still the fulcrum of a
matrimonial unison. Various external
factors do affect that physical communication
making it an accelerator of an affair speeding
to the dust bin.
Why..?Is there anything wrong in being honest
With thyself and thy partner about what you are
feel cancerous
within
your sex life?? These
concerns should never be dumped under the
carpet.
We take more time making cups of Coffee than
making
love.
Time is very vital. If he cums too soon, he needs
to spend more time exciting you and you need to
spend less time stimulating him
Get him to pleasure you for the first 20
minutes-then
you’ll both be ready.
Be sensitive and thoughtful. Use your hand
gently to
guide his, and DON’T COMPARE HIM TO PAST LOVERS or
at him. Show him how to take longer stimulating you
Be encouraging when he
does this and direct him on how firmly or softly you like
to be touched.
If he doesn’t get it-push him over and whisper
sexy
Scenarios in his ear.
There’s a link between people who
Have difficulty in reaching orgasm and
psychological
Problems. So there may be underlying issues
that need
resolving.
He still wants the missionary position
Are you attracted to each other physically and
Mentally??...Yes... you’re likely to be
attracted to similar sexual
Fantasies.
You may both be scared of discussing
Fantasies just in case you are judged.
Dr. Banks a sex
expert.
Personal element and tea-
tease your fantasies off each other. Ask open ended
questions like, ‘I’ve always wondered how…?
That will
give him room to express his thoughts without
making
it so obviously personal.
Does he seems to be having a serious problem ?
Definitely You are the one to encourage him to draw
him out of that trench.
Otherwise he might just never do it- you know
about the
male ego.
If a man is abusing alcohol, it won’t only
lower his
libido ; it can also decrease testosterone
production in
in the brain and even shrink the testes.
Keep an eye on his cigarette consumption, as
carbon-
monoxide in the blood can reduce the ability to
have an
erection!!!.
He is too hired
If a man is under intense pressure at work,
pushing
him into sex will certainly make things worse.
The male
ego runs faster than stockings. And if you make it dominate,
you have cultivated an irredeemable terror.
Stress will often decrease libido; watch out
for other
Red signals. Does he
have a short fuse and blow things out of
proportion? Is he oftenly & irrationally attacking your
habits? If
so, This clear ripe depression.
Treat him gently and kindly-just don’t force
it. Suggest
he seeks medication and be keen on the
reaction.
But
reassure him by blaming
The job for causing the stress-not him.
I won’t dress like that!
Using scarves as blind folds or experimenting
each other on
bedposts can be an erotic way to explore
adventurous sensual
pleasures, but if you want to increase the adventures
further, it’s good to discuss the boundaries
before
hand. Have a password to use when you want him to
stop.
And make sure the password is not
something
can be misconstrued.
If the boundaries are crossed the sexual
stimulation
can turn into distrust.
I don’t feel special
When he doesn’t compliment you when you are
maki
ng love, you will definitely fell less special.
In this case,
don’t attack and criticize him. This will get any man defensive.
Talk about it, but you keep it miles away from
the
bedroom.
over a drink
Explain that it would really turn you on
if he complimented you during sex. Since men adore
exciting women, he’ll grab the idea.
The next time you are making love, tell him how
good
He is making you feel- he might follow suit.
Just remember that no one has a perfect sex
life.
(Adopted-The Ideas might not necessarily
construe to the Publishers views)
