DON’T COMPARE HIM TO PAST LOVERS

Sex Problems

Though we have been technically crafted to

Know that bad sex is not the main

Reason for relationship or marriages falling apart,

Yes...It still  the fulcrum of a

matrimonial unison. Various external

factors do affect that physical communication

making it an accelerator of an affair speeding

to the dust bin.

Why..?Is there anything wrong in being honest

With thyself and thy partner about what you are feel cancerous

 within your sex life?? These

concerns should never be dumped under the

carpet.

We take more time making cups of Coffee than making

love.

Time is very vital. If he cums too soon, he needs

to spend more time exciting you and you need to

spend less time stimulating him

Get him to pleasure you for the first 20 minutes-then

you’ll both be ready.

Be sensitive and thoughtful. Use your hand gently to

guide his, and DON’T COMPARE HIM TO PAST LOVERS or

at him. Show him how to take longer stimulating you

Be encouraging when he

does this and direct him on how firmly or softly you like

to be touched.

If he doesn’t get it-push him over and whisper sexy

Scenarios in his ear.

 There’s a link between people who

Have difficulty in reaching orgasm and psychological

Problems. So there may be underlying issues that need

resolving.

He still wants the missionary position

Are you attracted to each other physically and

Mentally??...Yes... you’re likely to be attracted to similar sexual

Fantasies.

 You may both be scared of discussing

Fantasies just in case you are judged.

Dr. Banks a sex

expert.

Personal element and tea-

tease your fantasies off  each other. Ask open ended

questions like, ‘I’ve always wondered how…? That will

give him room to express his thoughts without making

it so obviously personal.

Does he seems to be having a serious problem ?

Definitely You are the one to encourage him to draw him out of that trench.

Otherwise he might just never do it- you know about the

male ego.

If a man is abusing alcohol, it won’t only lower his

libido ; it can also decrease testosterone production in

in the brain and even shrink the testes.

Keep an eye on his cigarette consumption, as carbon-

monoxide in the blood can reduce the ability to have an

erection!!!.

He is too hired

If a man is under intense pressure at work, pushing

him into sex will certainly make things worse. The male

ego runs faster than stockings. And if you make it dominate,

you have cultivated an irredeemable terror.

Stress will often decrease libido; watch out for other

Red signals. Does he have a short fuse and blow things out of

proportion? Is he oftenly & irrationally attacking your habits? If

so, This clear ripe depression.

Treat him gently and kindly-just don’t force it. Suggest

he seeks medication and be keen on the reaction.

 But reassure him by blaming

The job for causing the stress-not him.

I won’t dress like that!

Using scarves as blind folds or experimenting each other on

bedposts can be an erotic way to explore adventurous sensual

pleasures, but if you want to increase the adventures

further, it’s good to discuss the boundaries before

hand. Have a password to use when you want him to

stop. 

And make sure the password is not something

can be misconstrued.

If the boundaries are crossed the sexual stimulation

can turn into distrust.

I don’t feel special

When he doesn’t compliment you when you are maki

ng love, you will definitely fell less special. In this case,

don’t attack and criticize him. This will get any man defensive.

Talk about it, but you keep it miles away from the

bedroom.

over a drink

Explain that it would really turn you on

if he complimented you during sex. Since men adore

exciting women, he’ll grab the idea.

The next time you are making love, tell him how good

He is making you feel- he might follow suit.

Just remember that no one has a perfect sex life.

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Who is a Keep worthy Man ?

Relationship Problems & Love Problems

‘They are all the same!’ You curse. But relax!!!

Here are the Mark points to consider rehearsing before

You pull into the drive way of the road to

Celibacy.

Flowers

Give your man a small bouquet of flowers one day and be keen for the reaction.

If he flinches, laughs nervously and looks frantically for the nearest bin, then he is not Keep-worthy (KT) but if he grins and says,” Hey this means you love me, right?”

Then that’s the man of your life.(More)

Permanent curves on the lips

This means he has a great sense of humor- a big asset indeed.

But don’t confuse with the permanent imbecilic smile

Generous praise

The flowers and gifts are a good.

Is your

Man really generous with his praise your work, figure, leg, your smile,

Your eyes and personality? Praise makes a woman glow. If your man makes no

Effort to bring the best out of you, he is probably doing it elsewhere.

His response to conflicting issues

A Keep Worthy Man doesn’t fight dirty, slinging unnecessary references

to your mother, your dog, your hair dresser. He keeps

the argument to the issue at hand, refuses all baits to enlarge

the scope of the disagreement. And when you keep cool he looks

Pained at you’re not reacting

Can he really talk to you not at you

If a man really listens to you, looks into your eyes

bringing a connection, and in turn tells you things

,then this kind of a man is not just a great man but

-He is Keep-worthy. “CTRL + A” the others in your mind

and delete them. Not even dare fail to empty your Recycle Bin

His closeness to you

Men of mystery are not just worth it. Most of them have

Something to hide.it could be another girlfriend in the picture,

a clinging ex-wife or charges of embezzlement. This is not to say

that a man should be an open book. But if he is open about his heights

and lows, it means he trusts you.You should consider him a custodian of your heart (Broken hearts got no spare parts)

Lose of control

He should-of course lose some control to a healthy extent.

The sophisticated shroud should go off sometimes and he

makes a PDA (public demo of affection) or say some sweet

nothings in front of his buddies. You can’t let him go.

The Karen test

This is your best friend from kindergarten and it’s not her fault

that she is most men’s fantasy on two legs.Well,if your man can

meet Karen with warmth and friendliness without breaking into

a sweat, he’s passed the test.Ask him about her later.If he says,’ she

is lovely but you’re something else,’ relax. If he denies having noticed

her stun looks…run

The way he handles criticism

He should be able to give and take criticism .when you point out

about his smacking-of-lips when eating, he grins and says, ’Okay, I’ll

fix that.’ He should tell you about his being uncomfortable at your ear

picking habit with the car keys, without leaving you angry or belittled.

His steadiness

It’s said that the temperamental ones are exciting, but the other side

The coin is not worth it. He should stay pretty the same most of the time

Without subjecting you to agonies of nervousness .If he changes like the

Weather-he has failed the test. Keep it that simple and you’ll be safe.

His effort to fit in.

Despite your family being unreasonable and your friend

Sounding too much of a wanna-be, it should not be so noticeable

That they are unbearable. This will tell if the effort is genuine

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Eng_Gilbert: POETRY IS LIKE A LADY

I

Among the smoke and fog of a December afternoon

You have the scene arrange itself — as it will seem to do—

With "I have saved this afternoon for you";

And four wax candles in the darkened room,

Four rings of light upon the ceiling overhead,

An atmosphere of Juliet's tomb

Prepared for all the things to be said, or left unsaid.

We have been, let us say, to hear the latest Pole

Transmit the Preludes, through his hair and finger-tips.

"So intimate, this Chopin, that I think his soul

Should be resurrected only among friends

Some two or three, who will not touch the bloom

That is rubbed and questioned in the concert room."

—And so the conversation slips

Among velleities and carefully caught regrets

Through attenuated tones of violins

Mingled with remote cornets

And begins.

"You do not know how much they mean to me, my friends,

And how, how rare and strange it is, to find

In a life composed so much, so much of odds and ends,

(For indeed I do not love it ... you knew? you are not blind!

How keen you are!)

To find a friend who has these qualities,

Who has, and gives

Those qualities upon which friendship lives.

How much it means that I say this to you —

Without these friendships — life, what cauchemar!"

Among the winding of the violins

And the ariettes

Of cracked cornets

Inside my brain a dull tom-tom begins

Absurdly hammering a prelude of its own,

Capricious monotone

That is at least one definite "false note."

— Let us take the air, in a tobacco trance,

Admire the monuments,

Discuss the late events,

Correct our watches by the public clocks.

Then sit for half an hour and drink our bocks.